Poly Party

Being poly makes social events… interesting to say the least. I threw a Halloween party last night where I had kissed all but two people there; my best friend’s husband and a recent guy from tinder’s girlfriend. 10 out of 12 people. And I’d been naked and making out with 5. Over a third of the party. That’s kinda crazy ngl.

Over the course of the party I kissed 6 people. And everyone was pretty into it. Basically all of the women are bi, most with male partners, so some girl kisses are always fun for a night. And shockingly, the boys like to watch. I watched Dakota kiss his fwb which got me going a bit. A girl I like to make out with frequently started making out with a guy I’d been on a couple dates with (good for them!) and he really liked watching her & I together.

Honestly, I love this vibe. I love acceptance that we mix and mingle. I love the lack of jealousy and the spreading of affection. I love the mutual horniness we feel when we watch each other… but the drugs and alcohol might help on that front.

I’ve never been in an “orgy” (or have I? How many is an orgy? Dakota and I have been with another couple before, is four enough?) but this would be the group to do it with. Minus a couple of my prude friends, I think everyone was pretty down to have some fun. Everything stayed PG but I don’t think it would’ve taken much convincing to up that rating. Is that something I want to explore? How do you even ask people that? “Hey guys! Wanna come to an orgy?”

The poly community is pretty small. The one girl there that I hadn’t kissed informed me she dated one of my exes right after I had. We were talking about why we ended up getting the ick from him. Such a funny thing to bond over.

Today I re-capped some of the events of last night with Dakota and got the green light to pursue another sexual relationship with one of the party goers who shall rename unnamed for now. I haven’t decided if I will. I’m not sure I’ll have the time or emotional capacity and I don’t really want to start something just to sleep with him once or twice and then dip out. For now we’ll stick to some innocent kisses.

My love language is physical touch and I really love being able to express my affection freely without the worry of conventional boundaries or social norms. I want to kiss on everyone. I love my friends. I love cuddles. I love love 💕