Postpartum Sex is Better

The postpartum period is usually described very... unglamorously. And rightfully so. But I have been very pleased to discover one positive of all of the hormones and changes to my body: Sex is great. Don't get me wrong, sex was great before. I love sex. Why else would I have a blog, reddit, and OF dedicated to my fun and unconventional sex life? But we can all agree that some sessions are better than others. Even with a partner that knows your body well, the mood perfect, all kinks being met, there are some times it's just not as good (but still pretty good). Vice versa, occasionally you might go in for quickie and accidentally have some of the best sex of your life.

Why this happens I'm not really sure. And I'm super not sure why my baseline enjoyment of sex, the average quality overall from session to session, has gone up since giving birth. But I'm sure as hell not complaining.

I don't orgasm from penetration. I love fucking, it feels great, but it doesn't get me all the way there. I like to start with clit stimulation, usually until I squirt everywhere. I tend to get everything pretty wet. Once I've already achieved orgasm three or four times and I'm thoroughly lubricated, that's when I'm ready to be pounded into oblivion. Used like a sex toy. My favorite. But like I said, while it feels amazing I don't orgasm from it. I think I had climaxed from penetration 3 times ever in my whole life. In the 12 years I'd been having sex.

Well guess what happens now?

It has happened 3 or 4 times in the 3 months since I've resumed sex. At first I thought it was a one off. The few times it had happened over the years had been with Dakota so obviously he could get me there on occasion. Sweet, no complaints. But then shortly after my boyfriend succeeded at this too... Well that's odd? Although he wasn't afraid to be rougher with me. Dakota doesn't like to choke me, for example, which I really enjoy. So maybe that's what I had been needing this whole time, maybe it took very specific needs to be met.

Then it happened with Dakota again. Here's where I decided it couldn't be coincidence anymore. To basically double the amount of orgasms I had from penetration over the course of a few weeks was crazy. Did my vagina change after birth??

So sex is just generally better and now I can cum more ways than before, I'm not looking the gift horse in the mouth. Just enjoying the ride (pun intended). Maybe it's hormones or maybe at this point it's placebo effect. Perhaps I happened to have a few good sessions close together and got it into my head that it is just better now. I didn't give it much thought until Dakota mentioned his fwb (who gave birth a couple weeks before I did) had her first orgasm from penetration recently.

I don't know why this happens, but after everything women's bodies go through to bring life into this world, I think it's a very well deserved reward. Go thank the mother of your child with some dick today!